I just wanted to sort of clarify that "Your individual freedoms stop where your kinks enforcing patriarchy begin." post? I'm not the OP, but the way it's worded seems a little off. I think what was supposed to be implied was the kink IS enforcing the patriarchy, as in your individual freedoms stop when you want to enforce the patriarchy for your benefit. I could be totally wrong of course, but I thought it might be helpful!

I think that could be helpful too… thanks for writing in with this! :-)

Can’t say it enough, folk - nothing we do, say, think, watch, wear, etc. exists within a vacuum. Something to meditate on…